"Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them at least don't hurt them."~Dalai Lama
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The things I see people doing to each other on social media, especially women, makes me so sad. I don't understand the thrill that folks get from highlighting people's shortcomings, diminishing someone's accomplishments, or just bashing because you can. How does that make anybody's life better? . . . . . . . .
It's enough ugliness is this world, don't add to it with your actions. . .
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On this ride called Life, whether it be good or bad, we all get a turn.
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Life happens to us all. We will all experience the beauty and burden of living. We will all experience the glory of birth and the agony of death. The ups and downs of life happen to us all, its because of our individual experiences that we SHOULD be able to relate to and support one another.
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Sadly, people seem to miss the truth of our interconnectedness. When another person's success can cause a negative backlash, something is wrong. When another person's hurts is cause for celebration, something is wrong. I struggle to understand the mind that can't clap for others or be a shoulder for a weeping heart, like I wanna know, what happened to you!?
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Some people are so stuck in their own stuff. .
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When you help another person heal, you heal. When you are grateful for and celebrate the success of others, you draw in your own success. We are connected.
D.I.F.F.E.R.E.N.T.
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Why are we so afraid to be different and of the different?
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I have been different since my creation. When I stepped into this earth my assignment was to be different. I was born into some very complicated circumstances that automatically made me different. Hell different is who I am.
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For years I tried to be like everyone else, putting myself through torture because I was denying my authenticity. Thankfully, I have long since matured and I am comfortable in my individuality. However, I know that my comfort with self causes others discomfort, that's no my problem. .
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People can only me meet(You) at a level on which they have met themselves. So if someone is wrestling with their own identity issues, your self assuredness will make them uncomfortable. Just as you and I had to find our path to confidence and we continue to grow in that area, so will the less confident. I have learned to handle people who have identity issues with empathy but I don't take no shit. I can love them with boundaries and maintain a relationship or I can lovingly cut ties. .
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Life is too valuable to hide who I am in order to make others feel better about who they are. It is always my hope and goal that through my struggles and growth others are inspired and empowered to grow but their growth isn't my responsibility. Growth is an inside job❤
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Of all the things I aspire to be, being miserable isn't one of them
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People will seek to make you miserable because they are miserable. They are so consumed with their own misery that they don't realize that seeking to hurt others only compounds their own suffering. I don't understand ppl who like to inflict hurt on others while claiming to be the victimized, something is wrong with that narrative.
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Life is what we choose to make it. Yes there will be some things that happen and they are beyond our control but how we handle what life gives us is always and in all ways up to us. The only way to live your best life is to be accountable for your life. Stop blaming everyone else, look in the mirror, own your shit, fix your shit, and live this life in grand fashion.
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If a person is miserable, even if I love them, I remove them from my life; especially if they aren't doing anything to be and do better. I refuse to be infected by toxic ppl. You gotta love yourself enough to choose Y.O.U.
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