We are living in a confusing time. On one end you have women being abused, assaulted, and harassed based on the physical characteristics of their body. There are men who think that any woman with ass, lips, hips, and tits deserve to be objectified and used as sexual objects. There are women who are more… Continue reading Can YOU trust a big butt and a smile
I grew up in a religious Christian household. We went to Sunday School and Service on Sundays, Vacation Bible School in the summer, took Communion on every First Sunday, and participated in every Christian activity my grandma could put us in. We were taught to love the Lord and to fear Him. We knew that… Continue reading Religion or Spirituality: Damned or Divine
My sister's passing was to date, one of the most traumatic experiences of my life. There was no indication that death was on our horizon, she was doing well and optimistic about her future. February 29, 2016 was the day she suddenly passed away and the day, I lost it, LITERALLY. I have never encountered… Continue reading Make Peace with The Pieces
Recently, I realized that I have never really shared ME on my blogs. I talk about Endometriosis, Life, etc, and while those things are apart of my life, they are not the totality of who I am. So here are, 42 random, funny, weird, but factual things about me: 1. My name is Tamika(that should tell… Continue reading Get To Know Me….
Until I was 21 years old, my mom battled Alcohol Addiction. Mama was what I call I a High Functioning Alcoholic. She went to work everyday, took excellent care of me, maintained a household, and wasn't drunk all the time. Honestly, I don't think drinking became a problem for her nor I until I was… Continue reading Trusting Trauma
Before you can begin to understand why there are specific things that you should not say to women battling infertility, allow me to educate you on the subject matter. Infertility is a woman's inability to conceive or carry a pregnancy full term. I should note that there are two types of infertility, Primary and Secondary.… Continue reading Insult to Infertility: 4 Things you NEVER say!
Today has been eventful and I am feeling the stress and exhaustion of the day's events. Per usual, I retreated to my shower to cleanse my body and my soul, to meditate, and relish in the heat of the water. As I was getting my zen on and finding my center, God spoke to me;… Continue reading Accountable for being accommodating